Selena J

Evolve
Published February 22, 2012 - No Comments
You may hiss and you may boo me, you may resist and call me crazy…because there is NO possible way that this could be true! But have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe…the world is round and not flat? What is this limiting box that we live in?!!? Break out! Just becaus ...
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True Happiness
Published February 22, 2012 - No Comments
True happiness is not about anything external. You experience true happiness when you truly believe that the person you have become is a good, quality person. Therefore, happiness is when you like who you are. – love, sj
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Life Lessons: Use It All
Published February 21, 2012 - No Comments
Everyone goes through difficult periods in their life, right? I found something out that has helped me in the dark times, and that is…it’s one thing to go through something, it’s another thing to get something out of what you go through. I really believe that there is ...
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A Better Me
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
I have been in a shell lately. I’ve been in my own little world where I have escaped to elevate, to grow and to process some things. I come here often and I can’t lie and say that dropping from the face of the earth doesn’t affect my relationships…it does. Some of my family ...
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Listen To Your Inner Voice
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
It is so very important that we take some time each day to listen to our inner voice. Most of us have extremely important decisions to make everyday and if we don’t spend time connecting with our higher selves, God, our chances of making the wrong decision increases. I’ve learned f ...
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When One Chapter Closes
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
Sometimes it’s really hard to let things go. But when we hold on to people or things that no longer serve a purpose in our lives, we stunt our growth and we will not be happy. We all go through times and seasons in our lives…chapters, if you will. What may have been a necessary [ ...
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The Purpose of Relationships
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
Relationships can be extremely challenging. I think this is because there are so many different dynamics involved when you are dealing with someone, especially if that person is your significant other. If I haven’t learned anything else from my experiences, I’ve certainly learned t ...
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I Told Life I Wanted More
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
I stopped and told life that I wanted more. Life kept on moving and told me that it can only give me back what I put in. What you have is a result of what you have given. If you want more, you have to give more. Good or bad, we get what we give. We [...]
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Whatever You Do, Just Don’t Lose Yourself
Published January 14, 2012 - 2 Comments
I know life gets crazy busy with all of its demands on your time and energy, but you can’t let yourself go. You can’t allow your SELF to diminish in the multitude of daily tasks that require your immediate attention. Those things are always going to be there. You will always have a ...
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Growing Pains
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
There is a process that a person goes through for the sake of personal growth and development. Regardless of whether or not you are aware of the process, the process is happening within you and everyone and everything in your life is in on it; your family, neighbors, friends, co-workers ...
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Welcome to Selena J Dot Com!

Published February 22, 2012 at 12:12 am - No Comments

Thank you so much for visiting! Please get comfortable here and make this your home for inspiration, encouragement and thought provoking discussions. The content of my articles are always up for discussion, so if you have any thoughts to add or stories to share, please feel free to leave a comment and I will certainly [...]

Why Don’t You Love Me?

Published January 16, 2012 at 10:52 pm - No Comments

Beyonce sang, ‘why don’t you love me when I make me so damn easy to love. Why don’t you need me when I make me so damn easy to need.’ Sisters and brothers take heed. I know that plea all too well, as I’ve spent years searching for MY love in the hearts of men. [...]

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EvolvePublished February 22, 2012 at 9:32 pm
True HappinessPublished February 22, 2012 at 9:23 pm
Welcome to Selena J Dot Com!Published February 22, 2012 at 12:12 am
Life Lessons: Use It AllPublished February 21, 2012 at 11:09 am
Why Don’t You Love Me?Published January 16, 2012 at 10:52 pm
Reverse the ProgramPublished January 15, 2012 at 9:43 am
Either You Want it or You Don’tPublished January 15, 2012 at 9:31 am
True IdentityPublished January 15, 2012 at 12:58 am

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