Selena J

Either You Want it or You Don’t
Published January 15, 2012 - No Comments
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True Identity
Published January 15, 2012 - No Comments
You can’t buy class anymore than you can purchase character. The wherewithal to establish your values and stay committed to them is birthed out of an awareness of the beauty and greatness that resides within each and every one of us. We disrespect ourselves, pimp ourselves and play o ...
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When One Chapter Closes
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
Sometimes it’s really hard to let things go. But when we hold on to people or things that no longer serve a purpose in our lives, we stunt our growth and we will not be happy. We all go through times and seasons in our lives…chapters, if you will. What may have been a necessary [ ...
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The Purpose of Relationships
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
Relationships can be extremely challenging. I think this is because there are so many different dynamics involved when you are dealing with someone, especially if that person is your significant other. If I haven’t learned anything else from my experiences, I’ve certainly learned t ...
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I Told Life I Wanted More
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
I stopped and told life that I wanted more. Life kept on moving and told me that it can only give me back what I put in. What you have is a result of what you have given. If you want more, you have to give more. Good or bad, we get what we give. We [...]
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Whatever You Do, Just Don’t Lose Yourself
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
I know life gets crazy busy with all of its demands on your time and energy, but you can’t let yourself go. You can’t allow your SELF to diminish in the multitude of daily tasks that require your immediate attention. Those things are always going to be there. You will always have a ...
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Why We Settle
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
Sometimes it’s real easy to take the path of least resistance, especially when you are comfortable and things are convenient. You’ve done it right? We’ve all done it at some point in our lives. At some point, you made a decision to stop there, either temporarily (until you real ...
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What’s it Worth?
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
There are many paths and many modes of transportation to the same destination. You choose your system based upon the price you are willing to pay to get the results you want, when you want them. It really doesn’t matter if you fly or drive if you’re not afraid of the risks involved ...
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What Has Helped Me Through The Tough Times
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
I’ve had a lot of personal challenges over the years. The past 3 years have been particularly difficult for me. I’ve been learning a lot! Learning how to use my personal power to change myself, rather than my circumstances. I’ve been learning what love is. I’ve been learn ...
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Growing Pains
Published January 14, 2012 - No Comments
There is a process that a person goes through for the sake of personal growth and development. Regardless of whether or not you are aware of the process, the process is happening within you and everyone and everything in your life is in on it; your family, neighbors, friends, co-workers ...
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Why Don’t You Love Me?

Published January 16, 2012 at 10:52 pm - No Comments

Beyonce sang, ‘why don’t you love me when I make me so damn easy to love. Why don’t you need me when I make me so damn easy to need.’ Sisters and brothers take heed. I know that plea all too well, as I’ve spent years searching for MY love in the hearts of men. [...]

Reverse the Program

Published January 15, 2012 at 9:43 am - No Comments

Most of us go through experiences, especially in relationships, that we’d rather not go through. We accept circumstances that are unhealthy and unwise and we know it. We know we deserve better yet we continue to devalue ourselves by accepting less. Why do we do that? Over the years, our conscious and subconscious mind is [...]

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